Monthly Archives: January 2014

TBN to host annual pre-Super Bowl special featuring player interviews

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Sunday, Feb. 2, 2014, is the biggest game of year; and, on Jan. 31 at 9 p.m. CST, the Trinity Broadcasting Network will get viewers ready forSuperBowlNYNJ Super Bowl XLVIII with a two-hour faith-and-football special from New York City, featuring on-the-field interviews with members of both the Denver Broncos and the Seattle Seahawks, as well as appearances by NFL and other sports greats, along with impacting stories about how faith in God has made a difference in the lives of athletes.

Hosted each year by former NFL player Mike Barber, TBN’s annual Super Bowl pre-game warm-up has featured impacting interviews with many past and present NFL legends, including Kurt Warner, the late Reggie White, Joe Theismann, Aaron Rodgers, Aeneas Williams, Roman Phifer, Don Beebe, and Adam Vinatieri, to name just a few.

Slated for this year’s TBN pre-game special will be segments featuring both team quarterbacks – the Denver’s Peyton Manning and Seattle’s 2012 NFL Rookie of the Year Russell Wilson – along with Super Bowl Media Day interviews with other game-changers such as Seattle’s Chris Maragos, Clint Gresham, and Russell Okung, and Denver’s Jacob Tamme and Joel Dresson.

“We’re excited about this year’s lineup for TBN’s pre-Super Bowl show,” Barber said. “This program is about more than just football. It’s men talking about how Christ has made a difference in their lives, in their families, and even in how they approach the game. This is going to be a life-changing show for our viewers.”

TBN Vice President Matthew Crouch said TBN’s annual Super Bowl pre-game “Praise the Lord” show is one of the network’s most popular and anticipated specials.

“We’ve been hosting this for the past fifteen years, and the list of past guests and participants reads like an NFL ‘Who’s Who,'” he said. “This year’s Super Bowl is sure to be one of the most exciting in history, and we’re looking forward to connecting with some of the players at TBN’s special pre-game warm-up.”

Round: Waiting on God is hard

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By Carol Round
Special to Inside The Pew

“I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits, and in His Word I put my hope.”—Psalm 130:5 (NIV).

We wait in line at the grocery store, the post office, a concession stand and other places requiring us to be patient. Waiting is hard. WeWaiting don’t want to wait. We want it now.

In a 1978 edition of “Good Housekeeping” magazine, a recipe for Hummingbird Cake appeared. Submitted by a Mrs. L.H. Wiggins of North Carolina, the cake took only 60 minutes of hands-on time. However, the cake—made from scratch—required 8-10 hours before it could be sliced and served.

Using over-ripe bananas, toasted pecans and crushed pineapple, along with the other necessary cake ingredients, the batter was poured into three well-greased and floured 9-inch cake pans, baked and then cooled for at least an hour. The next step called for a homemade cream cheese custard filling, a decadent mixture to be spread between the cake layers. However, after boiling, the cream cheese mixture had to cool at room temperature for at least an hour before being placed in the refrigerator to be chilled for another six to 24 hours. The final step in this famed cake recipe is a browned butter frosting, which required another hour to an hour and half prep and chilling time before completion.

 

That was 35 years ago. Times have changed. Most of us don’t want to spend that much time preparing, let alone waiting over 24 hours, to eat a cake. Most of us grab a cake mix and canned frosting off the grocery shelf to make a cake in less than two hours.

Waiting on God is also difficult. It’s frustrating. We want answers now. Wouldn’t it be nice to pick up the phone, dial a number and get God on the other end to give us an immediate answer? However, it doesn’t work that way. He always answers in His timing with good reasons for making us wait. For example, Mary and Martha waited on Jesus to come heal their brother, Lazarus. When Jesus finally shows up, He is accused of taking too long. In the wait, His plans were perfected.

Waiting is one of God’s tools to develop His people. If you look at Psalm 130:5 closely, the psalmist mentions not only waiting for the Lord but also placing his hope in God’s Word. If we read and study the Bible stories of those who waited on God, we can find encouragement. Remember, Abraham waited 25 years, Moses waited 40 and Jesus waited 30. God uses the times of waiting to transform our character but He never asks us to wait without Him. The great heroes of the Bible went through difficulties and hardshipsCarol Round but God was with them in the trenches.

Pastor John Ortberg said, “Biblically, waiting is not just something we have to do until we get what we want. Waiting is part of the process of becoming what God wants us to be.”

While waiting, trust God in the process.

Carol Round is author of the weekly syndicated column “A Matter of Faith.” She resides in Claremore, Okla.  Need a speaker for your women’s event? Email carolaround@yahoo.com.

 

 

Movie chronicles work of homeless shelters advocate Kathy DiFiore

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By Ginny McCabe
Special to ASSIST News Service

LOS ANGELES (ANS) – Based on real-life stories of hope and transformation, Gimme Shelter opened in theaters Jan. 24.gimme-shelter-poster

This new Roadside Attractions film celebrates the life and work of Several Sources Shelters Founder, Leader and Women’s Issues Advocate, Kathy DiFiore. DiFiore has worked hand-in-hand with Mother Teresa and her powerful influence changed the shelter laws in New Jersey. She has also been honored by three American presidents and recognized at the UN for her life-changing work.

Award-winning filmmaker Ronald Krauss directed the film and penned the movie’s original screenplay, while spending a year in one of DiFiore’s shelters for pregnant teens. His writing reflects upon their lives and chronicles the challenging journey. Based on a true story, Gimme Shelter centers on a 16-year-old pregnant teenager, Agnes “Apple” Bailey, (Vanessa Hudgens) who flees a drug-ridden mother (Rosario Dawson) in search of a better life of her own. Turned away by her Wall Street father, (Brendan Fraser) Apple is forced into a life on the streets. The film is rated PG-13.

“(Gimme Shelter) will remind young women that they have choices,” said the film’s star Vanessa Hudgens. “When we see someone like Kathy doing a great job serving others, we should recognize and honor them. We’re all in this together and when we embrace that we begin to come together as a community.”

What makes this inspirational drama so riveting is that DiFiore’s own life story and experiences are as compelling as any blockbuster film. As a suburban wife and mother, she escaped an abusive marriage, which left her herself homeless and on the street. In reclaiming her life, DiFiore’s recovery fueled a desire to help others turn their lives around. When she made her home a shelter for un-wed, pregnant women, the State of New Jersey raided it and levied huge fines for running an illegal boarding house. As a devout Catholic Christian woman, she decided to reach out to none other than Mother Teresa.

“Together they fought the state and managed to change the law,” said Ronald Krauss. “Now she runs five shelters in New Jersey that give people a chance to get back on their feet by providing them with education and helping them get jobs. Her shelters are run 100 percent on donations, without any public funding, for 35 years now.”

DiFiore first welcomed a pregnant teen in her own home in 1981. Since that time, she has tirelessly devoted her life to helping others. Her faith-inspired testimony continues to offer compassion and spread hope.

“Through God’s Grace, we save babies’ lives and shelter their young mothers while providing education and ongoing compassionate support services including our Pregnancy Sonogram Center. We further educate young people to make healthy life choices. We also shelter women who are homeless, sick and elderly as we help them to restore their dignity,” said DiFiore, about the primary purpose behind her life’s work.

“Women who go against the tide and have their baby become that child’s hero. It comes down to their choices, but it’s not always an easy road. Many of them are forced to leave their family and turn to a shelter. I can’t help but admire them. They are changing the ‘culture of death’ into a culture of life and I want to help them have a better life,” DiFiore said.

For more about the movie, or to find a theater near you, go to www.GimmeShelterTheMovie.com.

 

Americans celebrate MLK holiday with host of commemorative events

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On what would have been the 85th birthday of the Civil Rights leader, a host of organizations are holding commemorative events inRon Sims honor of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Below are some of the events submitted to us.

In Seattle, Wash., the second annual Martin Luther King Jr. Prayer Breakfast will honor local leaders with the Vision From the Mountaintop Award on Jan. 20 beginning at 7 a.m. at the Westin Hotel, 1900 5th Ave. Ron Sims, deputy secretary for the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, will deliver the keynote address at the breakfast. The Rev. Allen A. Belton, Senior Partner at Reconciliation Ministries with Breakthrough Partners and The Beloved Community of the Puget Sound Area in cooperation with the Martin Luther King, Jr. Celebration Committee are collaborators of the breakfast.

In Grand Rapids, Mich., Bishop P.A. Brooks, founder of New St. Paul Tabernacle Church of God in Christ in Detroit, will speak during a chapel service at 10 a.m. at Cornerstone University. The Cornerstone University Multi-Cultural Organization will host Bishop Brooks as part of the campus MLK celebration. “Bishop Brooks will share historical moments from his personal relationships with Dr. King, Rosa Park and Mandela,” said Eric Lewis, multicultural advisor on campus.

In Charlotte, N.C., the YMCA of Greater Charlotte will host its 20th annual MLK Prayer Breakfast at the Charlotte Convention Center’sHilton Harper Crown Ballroom from 8 to 9:30 a.m. The keynote speaker is actor Hill Harper. Best known for his role as Dr. Sheldon Hawkes on CSI: NY, Harper is also a graduate of Harvard Law School and the author of New York Times best seller “Letters to a Young Brother: Manifest Your Destiny.” As a special gift to the city of Charlotte and in honor of the event’s 20th year, the YMCA will show a video titled DREAM Charlotte: A Tribute from the Voices of Charlotte’s Living Generations.

In Chattanooga, Tenn., Arun Gandhi, grandson of Mahatma Gandhi, will speak to students at the McCallie School for boy on his grandfather’s philosophy and the role that it played in shaping both Dr. King and the American Civil Rights Movement on Jan. 20. King once called Gandhi “the guiding light of our technique of nonviolent social change.” McCallie Headmaster Dr. Kirk Walker said, “We are very pleased that our school community can salute Dr. Martin Luther King’s life and legacy by hearing from the grandson of Mahatma Gandhi, a man whose vision and work served as an inspiration to Dr. King. Their message of hope and nonviolence remains as important today as it was in the last century.”

On Jan. 17, the student body of Indiana Wesleyan University held a wide celebration to honor King. The MLK Celebration Concert, Living the Dream, took place in the auditorium of the Phillippe Performing Arts Center on the main campus of Indiana Wesleyan University in Marion, IN. Indiana Wesleyan University is an evangelical Christian comprehensive university of The Wesleyan Church. The University, founded in 1920, is committed to global liberal arts and professional education.

Eggerichs: How to get the respect you’ve wanted from your kids in ’14

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By Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
Special to Inside The Pew

Years ago when I was a pastor, I was speaking at a Christian summer camp. I was about to give the evening message and my son David,Emerson Eggerich who was around age ten, was misbehaving because he wanted to do something that we did not have time to do at the moment. I distinctly remember feeling: This child is purposely defying me. He is showing me disrespect to retaliate for not getting his way.

I took David out to our car, where I hoped to reason with him. He sat in the backseat; I sat in the front. I tried to get him to talk but got only cold silence, which made me feel more and more disrespected. Finally, I angrily bawled him out for his disrespect, but that only made David more convinced I was being unfair and unloving. He stared out the window with no remorse or apology—only silence—and it ended in a stalemate. I had to speak in a few minutes, so I had David accompany me to the auditorium, where I addressed the crowd as best I could, all the while feeling like a complete hypocrite because of my horrible parenting.

When kids do not listen to parents, at some level, parents feel disregarded and disrespected. But what else is going on from the child’s perspective? I want to give you a game plan for raising your kids, no matter what their age. To help you build this game plan, there are two basic principles to understand and apply to all ages and stages:

  1. Kids need love
  2. Parents need respect

The parent-child relationship is as easy, and as difficult, as love and respect.

When frustrated with an unresponsive child, a parent does not declare, “You don’t love me!” Instead the parent concludes, “You are being disrespectful right now.” A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts. When upset, a child does not whine, “You don’t respect me.” Instead, a child pouts, “You don’t love me.” A child needs to feel loved, especially during disputes.

The good news is that when children feel loved, they are motivated to respond positively to parents, and when parents feel respected, they are energized to be lovingly affectionate with their kids. When these needs are met, good things happen in the family.

But, of course, the reverse happens all too often. An unloved child reacts negatively in a way that feels disrespectful to a parent. A disrespected parent reacts negatively in a way that feels unloving to the child. We might say that every negative action in the family has an equal and opposite negative reaction. This dynamic gives birth to the Family Crazy Cycle: without love a child reacts without respect; and without respect, a parent reacts without love.

Parents need and want the respect that Scripture plainly says is their due: “Honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12) is one of many passages where children are clearly told to honor and respect their parents. And children need and want the love and sensitive understanding that Scripture teaches parents to give them. See Titus 2:4, Ephesians 6:4, and Colossians 3:21 for just a few examples of where parental responsibilities are mentioned or described.

As I reflect on that scene where I blew it with David, it never occurred to me that he may have been feeling unloved. Perhaps he just wanted time with me and was feeling left out. If I had addressed the situation with that understanding, could this conflict have been avoided? It is hard to be sure, but one thing is for sure: my angry outburst accusing him of being disrespectful did not help him open his heart to me. I could have decoded him much better, but I did not know then what I know now. What I had to learn, by trial and error, is that parenting is for adults only, and as adults we need to learn to decode what’s going on between us and our kids.

For example, there’s not always a clear-cut “yes or no” answer to the question, “Is my child feeling unloved?” It is entirely possible that he is acting this way out of childish irresponsibility, selfishness, or even open defiance. He is unhappy, he is just not getting his way, and he is letting you know it. On the other hand, there are times when parents can start the Family Crazy Cycle by overreacting to kids just being kids. Our rigidity and negativity are perceived as unloving to our children, who then feel unfairly judged, and now we have entered the Family Crazy Cycle.

All we may want for Christmas is respect…but demanding it from our kids all year long will not help them to feel loved. In fact, it will have the opposite effect and the Family Crazy Cycle will keep spinning! As parents we need to decode and make the first move. As we begin to see love and respect as basic family needs we will be able to stop this cycle of conflict and work towards harmony in our home.

Emerson Eggerichs is the author of Love & Respect in the Family: The Respect Parents Desire, the Love Children Need (Thomas Nelson Publishers). Eggerichs, a resident of Grand Rapids, Mich., is founder and president of Love & Respect Ministries and holds 30-plus years of pastoring and counseling experience and extensive scientific and biblical research. Eggerichs earned a master’s degree in divinity from Dubuque Seminary and a Ph.D. from Michigan State in child and family ecology. He has been married for 40 years and is the father of three grown children.